Coaching a Situation That Needs Counseling

A Blog Post by Brian Miller

Many years ago, my brother told me, “At some point in every person’s life, they could benefit from counseling.” That was important for me to hear. Everyone has been hurt. Everyone is stuck somewhere.

Since the need for counseling is prevalent, we are going to encounter that need in our coaching. As we build trust with a client, it may be the first issue that rises to the top. Brokenness brews and bubbles before it settles into the bones. Those bubbles of brokenness can be seen in most people I coach. If I can’t see them, I haven’t built enough trust. Sometimes the bubbles can be ignored. Sometimes they cannot. Let’s consider what a model for coaching might look like if we can’t ignore the brokenness.

It’s All Discipleship

A Blog Post by Chad Hall

When I first learned about coaching, I was not in love with the concept.  At the time, I was on staff with a large denomination and we had a history of “flavor-of-the-month” training programs, each of which was sure to be the magical missing ingredient for ushering in God’s kingdom.  (Yawn!)  So, as I heard about coaching, I figured it was just one more good (but not great) idea.

Nearly twenty years later, coaching has become my vocational identity.  What changed?  I got hooked on coaching when I realized it was a fantastic approach to discipleship.

Six Dimensions of Discovery

A Blog Post by Brian Miller

Powerful coaching occurs when the client learns something new. The client thinks new thoughts. The client becomes someone new. Our role as a coach is help them take a one-dimensional idea or issue and make it multi-dimensional.  Rather than solve the problem, we help the client see the situation in a clearer fashion. And then, the resolution of their issue often seems obvious.

The biggest movie of 2018 was Avengers: Infinity War. The plot of the movie was that the villain was trying to collect all six Infinity Stones to give him the power to do what he believed needed to be done. The back story is that each of the Infinity Stones controls an essential aspect of existence. It made me wonder if these six essential aspects of existence might help us consider how we might help our client fully discover their topic.

Now, this is a movie and not Scripture or anything of any substance. I mainly thought this exercise would be a fun way to think about creating discovery in coaching. It goes without saying that this is just a thought exercise and not any statement about the substance of the universe. If it gives me or you another great question to ask, mission accomplished.

The definitions of each stone are copied from this Wikipedia article.

How to Get Your First 100 Clients

A Blog Post by Brian Miller

You got a credential. Now clients are no excuse. You spent a few dollars on a nice website and even followed CAM’s advice on making your client the hero. Your organization or denomination got your email announcement that you are now certified and ready for clients. You’ve been writing a small post about coaching and putting it on your Facebook wall. Now all there is to do is wait. And wait. And wait.

There must be something wrong with the website. You look it over, and it doesn’t look as shiny and new as last week. That may be the problem. You hire a different web designer and fork out a bit more money this time. You’re thinking about starting a podcast. You’re wondering if you need to figure out SEO.

Clients aren’t knocking on your door, and they aren’t going to. Coaches have to knock on the client’s door. Why is that?